Spooky szn has come and gone, Melbourne is opening up and I personally feel that this month has lasted years. Anyone else?
READ
As promised last month, I wanted to give an update on The Space Between – the book written by the two women behind the Shameless podcast.
It was wonderful! Insightful, introspective and funny. And as cliche as it sounds – real and raw. I particularly found the chapter on friendship not only heart-aching but relatable. Losing your best friend sucks. But that kind of platonic love is not often explored in both media, or ourselves.
Not only this book, but I think also the pandemic, has taught me a lot about friendships and how I will really strive to nurture them.
The book did take me a little while to read though because it’s composed of essays. You’re not getting lost in a fictional story.
And whilst it was enjoyable to read, it wasn’t addictive. I quite liked reading it little by little.
I would recommend this book to everyone, but particularly women like me who are in their late teens but not yet thirty. I think this book kind of acts like a warning – your twenties may not be what you imagined. But at the same time, it will teach you how to be okay with that, and relish in it.
WATCHED
The first few days of October I watched A LOT of TV.
Selling Sunset at the end of September kind of kicked it all off.
Then I went on to Julie and The Phantoms. This show is directed by Kenny Ortega, the mastermind behind High School Musical. It definitely had West High vibes. In a really good way. HSM is like my favourite thing ever so this was so up my street. But I can certainly feel myse;f getting older when this show is probably aimed at those younger than me. Nonetheless, I fangirled hard! My whole Tik Tok feed is JATP now- wooooo!
Next I watched The Duchess, which was a random choice. It was pretty easy and quick, and the fashion and interiors were INCREDIBLE! However the actual story line was about motherhood and so didn’t really relate to me and so I probably wouldn’t recommend it.
It is genuinely a goal of mine to watch TV more regularly. I really want to be one of those people who has watched full series of shows, and finishes their day with an episode or two. I guess I do this, in the way and amount that I watch Youtube. But I’m trying to rewatch The Hills before I watch the new version (Roxane told me it’s on Stan and I’m like how have I been hiding under this rock!!)
I started watching Emily in Paris because there was so much talk about. I tried to go in with an open mind and ignore the unanimous comments that it was so incredibly cliche and a mindless watch.
Didn’t take me long to realise, that’s true! I got through one and a half episodes. It was just utter trash. And I love trash. But this was too much for me. It felt like an early 2000s movie, it was young and naive and didn’t represent ANY social changes or movements that women have worked so hard for. The bitchy boss and the women competing with women in the office storyline. The ‘oops I went to the wrong floor of my building, French count in such weird ways. I’m American and so how we count floors is the only right way.’ Honestly, it felt obnoxious. I am only speaking for the first 1.5 episodes here, but I couldn’t take it. Would not recommend it. Not even for the pretty setting of Paris.
I watched Deaf U on Netflix and oh my gosh, it was so good. really funny, heart warming and eye opening. Very short and quick too- if you watch anything, watch this!!
ATE
I got McDonalds bacon and egg muffins twice this month. I had a craving for them lol. Delish!
WORE
Real clothes! With the weather warming up, my iso uniform of tracksuit and hoodies isn’t cutting it anymore. I realise how easy winter dressing was this year. I’m genuinely like, how do you put together an outfit? What is a razor lol?
DID
Shockingly to me- trust me- I started consistently working out this month. During lockdown I completed Couch to 5K and was really proud of myself. However, once I reached 5K I did it a few times by myself (without the app guiding me) and then I fell off the horse. Running for that long was boring, mostly. It was still a challenge, but I was bored. So I just didn’t workout for a few weeks.
For a few weeks, I promised myself I’d start tomorrow. Of course, tomorrow never came.
But the first Sunday of October, I woke up FULL of motivation. And so I started the Sydney Cummings challenge on YouTube.
This first day of this challenge was a lower body workout. The next day, I could hardly walk. I think it was because I hadn’t moved my body like that in so long.
I was on a roll! It was a 30 day challenge and I completed it on my own terms, working out 2-3 times a week. My motivation died three weeks in sadly lol.
I would really recommend this channel if you’re looking to start home workouts. She isn’t in your face intense or enthusiastic (sorry, I hate that ‘you’re doing AHMAZING!’ You can’t see me and this hurts!!!)
LISTENED
Why haven’t I had a ‘listen to’ segment in this post yet???
Better late than never!
Daisy reminded my of the Culture Club podcast and I enjoyed catching up on this and am fangirling over co-host @yemagz – I’ve bought some Soli Studio earrings she wore, and have wishlisted a lippie she shared too.
I also listened to the first episode of Single Minded and thought it was really great just for some life advice too.


